Apply To Be a Surrogate Mother. How To Become a Surrogate Mother

Surrogacy is a life-changing journey, both for the intended parents and the women who carry their child. If you are considering becoming a gestational surrogate, it's important to understand the process, the benefits, and why working with a professional agency like ours is the best choice for a smooth, legally protected, and rewarding experience.

Why Do Women Become Surrogates?

Women choose to become gestational surrogates for various reasons, but all share the same core motivation: the desire to help families who cannot have children on their own. Some of the common reasons include:

• A passion for helping others – Many surrogates have witnessed fertility struggles and want to give others the joy of parenthood.
• A fulfilling experience – Surrogacy is often described as one of the most rewarding experiences of a woman's life.
• Financial benefits – Compensation helps surrogates provide for their families, pay off debt, or save for the future.
• Enjoying pregnancy – Many surrogates love being pregnant and want to experience it again without expanding their own families.

Who Do Surrogates Help?

Gestational surrogates help a wide range of intended parents, including:

• Heterosexual couples who are struggling with infertility.
• LGBTQIA+ couples who need a gestational carrier to complete their family.
• Single parents who dream of having a biological child but require assistance.
• Medical reasons – Women who cannot safely carry a pregnancy due to health conditions.

Match with Intended Parents

One of the biggest advantages of working with our agency is that you choose who you match with. We carefully screen and match surrogates with intended parents based on:

• Shared values and expectations
• The level of communication and relationship desired
• Personal preferences such as location, number of embryos transferred, and more.

All matches are mutual, ensuring a comfortable and trusting relationship throughout the journey.

Surrogate Requirements

To ensure a healthy and successful pregnancy, gestational surrogates must meet specific qualifications. These include:

Health Requirements

• Be between 21-40 years old.
• Have given birth to at least one healthy child.
• Have no history of pregnancy complications.
• Have a healthy BMI.
• Be a non-smoker and drug-free.

Lifestyle Requirements

• Live in a surrogacy-friendly state.
• Have a stable home environment.
• Be financially stable (not on government assistance).
• Have a strong support system (partner, family, or friends).

Legal Requirements

• Be a U.S. citizen or permanent resident.
• Pass a criminal background check.
• Work with an attorney to finalize all legal agreements.

How Much Do Surrogate Mothers Get Paid?

Gestational surrogates receive compensation throughout their journey, not just after birth. With all additional bonuses and reimbursements, total earnings can range from $60,000 to over $100,000.

Compensation varies but typically includes:

• Base compensation: $50,000–$80,000+ depending on experience, location, and specific surrogacy agreements.
• Monthly allowances: $200–$500 per month for personal expenses, including maternity clothing, wellness care, and transportation.
• Additional payments for multiples: $5,000–$10,000 extra per additional baby carried.
• C-section payment: $3,000–$5,000 in case a cesarean section is required.
• All medical costs covered, including fertility treatments, prenatal care, labor, and postnatal recovery, valued at $10,000–$30,000.
• Lost wages reimbursement: Up to $6,000 depending on income loss due to pregnancy-related medical restrictions.
• Childcare reimbursement: $100–$500 per week for surrogates who need additional childcare support.
• Legal fees fully covered, valued at $3,000–$6,000, ensuring surrogates do not bear any out-of-pocket expenses for contracts, negotiations, or legal proceedings.
• Health and life insurance coverage: Policies valued at $500,000+ to provide security for the surrogate and her family.
• Embryo transfer bonus: $1,000–$2,000 to compensate for time and medical preparation before pregnancy is confirmed.
• Psychological support and counseling services: Valued at $2,000–$5,000 to help manage the emotional aspects of surrogacy.
• Postpartum recovery stipend: $2,000–$4,000 allowing surrogates to take time to heal and recuperate after birth.
• Exclusive wellness programs: Including access to pregnancy-related nutritionists, fitness classes, and medical consultations, valued at $1,500–$3,000.

Compensation is structured to provide financial security throughout the process, ensuring surrogates are supported from pre-pregnancy preparation to post-birth recovery. Working with an agency guarantees timely payments, clear contracts, and a stress-free financial experience for all surrogates.

Whose Egg Cells Are Used in Surrogacy?

Gestational surrogates have no biological connection to the baby they carry. The embryos are created using the intended parents' or donors' egg and sperm. This means the child is 100% genetically related to the intended parents (or donors) and not to the surrogate.

What Is the Process To Become a Surrogate?

1. Application & screening – Fill out an application and undergo medical and psychological evaluations.
2. Matching – Choose the intended parents you feel comfortable carrying for.
3. Legal contracts – Sign agreements to protect all parties.
4. Medical preparation – Take fertility medications to prepare for embryo transfer.
5. Embryo transfer – The embryo is placed in your uterus in a painless procedure.
6. Pregnancy – Regular medical check-ups and support from our agency.
7. Delivery – The baby is delivered and placed immediately with the intended parents.

What Guarantees Does a Surrogate Mother Have? How Does the Law Protect Her?

• Legally binding contracts ensuring fair compensation and rights.
• Full medical care coverage paid for by intended parents.
• Legal representation provided at no cost.
• Emotional and psychological support throughout the process.
• Escrow accounts to guarantee timely payments and financial security.
• Insurance coverage to safeguard against medical complications.
• Protection under state surrogacy laws, ensuring the surrogate is not responsible for the child post-birth.
• No parental rights or obligations, ensuring that all legal parental rights go directly to the intended parents.
• Clear dispute resolution terms, ensuring all parties understand their rights and obligations in any unforeseen circumstances.
• In states where surrogacy is legally recognized, legal agreements clearly define all parties' responsibilities, ensuring surrogates receive their full compensation and benefits as agreed upon.

How Long Does the Surrogate Process Take?

The entire process, from application to delivery, typically takes 12-18 months, depending on medical and legal factors. However, several factors can influence the timeline:

Application and Screening (1-3 months)

• Completion of initial applications and interviews.
• Medical evaluations and psychological assessments.
• Background checks and approval from fertility specialists.

Matching Process (1-6 months)

• Surrogates review potential intended parent profiles.
• Intended parents and surrogates meet to ensure compatibility.
• Legal contract negotiations and final agreements.

Medical Preparation (1-3 months)

• Surrogates undergo hormone treatments to prepare the uterus for embryo transfer.
• Regular medical checkups and ultrasounds ensure readiness.
• Final clearance is given for embryo transfer.

Embryo Transfer and Pregnancy Confirmation (1-2 months)

• The embryo is transferred in a controlled medical setting.
• Blood tests confirm pregnancy within two weeks.
• If unsuccessful, additional transfers may be attempted.

Pregnancy (9 months)

• Regular prenatal appointments to monitor the baby’s health.
• Emotional and psychological support from the agency.
• Communication between surrogate and intended parents as agreed upon.

Delivery and Post-Birth Recovery (1-3 months)

• Surrogate gives birth in a pre-selected hospital.
• The baby is placed immediately with intended parents.
• Postpartum care and medical follow-ups for the surrogate.
• Final compensation payments and continued emotional support.

What Happens During and After Delivery?

• The surrogate gives birth in a pre-selected hospital.
• The baby is immediately placed with the intended parents.
• The surrogate receives post-birth medical care and support.
• Most surrogates maintain a relationship with the intended parents, depending on personal preferences.

How Do Relationships Between Intended Parents and Surrogates Develop During Pregnancy?

• Communication varies based on comfort levels.
• Some surrogates and parents become close, while others keep it professional.
• Our agency helps establish clear expectations from the start.

Surrogate FAQs

How many times can I be a surrogate?

Most agencies allow up to three or four successful surrogate pregnancies.

Is there an age limit?

Yes, typically between 21 and 40 years old.

Can I be a surrogate if I've never been pregnant?

No, surrogates must have given birth at least once before.

What happens if I miscarry?

You will receive medical care and may be eligible to try again.

What if it’s twins?

Surrogates receive extra compensation for carrying multiples.

What types of medical screenings will I have?

You will undergo bloodwork, ultrasounds, and psychological screenings.

Can I continue working during my surrogate pregnancy?

Yes, unless your doctor advises against it.

How much contact will I have with intended parents?

It depends on your agreement. Some surrogates and parents communicate frequently, while others prefer minimal interaction.

Why Choose Our Agency?

• Expert guidance every step of the way
• Guaranteed legal protection for you and your family
• Competitive compensation with full transparency
• A stress-free journey with 24/7 support

If you’re ready to start your surrogacy journey, apply today!